This situation is mostly happening in various way of lovelife,
whether it's couple love or just love from the one side,not both (okay,that's pathetic =.=').
yeah,of course we want our loved ones to be happy.
Their happiness is important,seriously.
BUT different actions should have taken in different situations
what kind of situation?
like,your couple doesn't happy being with u,instead she smiling when being with someone else
Ouch!that's hurt...
but one thing for sure..
WAKE UP,open your eyes and accept this painful truth (truth is ugly..)
You love her but is she feel the same thing to u?
but still,u want her to be happy,rite?
There's something to do if she doesn't happy being with u;
1. Smile is important!show her that u are happy even though u dont.
2. Support her in any conditions.
3. Make yourself busy and ask others that can make her happy,accompany her.
4.Let her go without any hesitation.
5. If it becomes worse,tell her that u're not for her and u'll be fine without her (tell her that u hate her if u have to).
6. Don't make her worry because of u,just act happy even when u're not with her anymore.
Yeah,i know,it is painful.
Well,on the other hands,some situations like;
'she's my beloved but i'm her friend' or 'im in love with her but she dont have any clue about it' or 'i love her about she's in love with someone else'...
...yeah,a 'one-sided' love..
There some tips here,
1. Dont tell her your feeling towards her,dont tell her that u love her
2. When she's telling u about the one she loved,have some interested in her story
3. Present positive words,positive thought about the one she in love with.
4. Dont make she's noticed that u love her,act natural.
5. Always wish her luck with the her beloved ones.
6. Always shows her that u're fine,dont make her worry about u.
7. Show that u dont need her,even though u did.
8. Act friendly,not lovely.
9. Dont be to close to her and try to avoid her without she's noticing u doing it,especially when she's currently with her Romeo
10. When her Romeo nearby or contacting her,just smile instead of showing her that u were annoyed.
11. Dont sadden yourself by looking at her status(social network),mentioned about 'him'.Be glad as she's happy.If u still hurt,dont look at her status,or pretend u never did.
Making others happy is really a hard job,especially our loved ones.
Our heart could be shred into pieces,or being cut,leaving scars
but if we love her,no matter who she's in love with,her happiness is what matter.
Others feeling is more important to us,
that is humane,
that is love.
eL
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