tales of serenade - 'I just want u to be happy'

This situation is mostly happening in various way of lovelife,

whether it's couple love or just love from the one side,not both (okay,that's pathetic =.=').

yeah,of course we want our loved ones to be happy.

Their happiness is important,seriously.

BUT different actions should have taken in different situations

what kind of situation?

like,your couple doesn't happy being with u,instead she smiling when being with someone else

Ouch!that's hurt...

but one thing for sure..

WAKE UP,open your eyes and accept this painful truth (truth is ugly..)

You love her but is she feel the same thing to u?

but still,u want her to be happy,rite?

There's something to do if she doesn't happy being with u;

1. Smile is important!show her that u are happy even though u dont.

2. Support her in any conditions.

3. Make yourself busy and ask others that can make her happy,accompany her.

4.Let her go without any hesitation.

5. If it becomes worse,tell her that u're not for her and u'll be fine without her (tell her that u hate her if u have to).

6. Don't make her worry because of u,just act happy even when u're not with her anymore.

Yeah,i know,it is painful.

Well,on the other hands,some situations like;

'she's my beloved but i'm her friend' or 'im in love with her but she dont have any clue about it' or 'i love her about she's in love with someone else'...

...yeah,a 'one-sided' love..

There some tips here,

1. Dont tell her your feeling towards her,dont tell her that u love her

2. When she's telling u about the one she loved,have some interested in her story

3. Present positive words,positive thought about the one she in love with.

4. Dont make she's noticed that u love her,act natural.

5. Always wish her luck with the her beloved ones.

6. Always shows her that u're fine,dont make her worry about u.

7. Show that u dont need her,even though u did.

8. Act friendly,not lovely.

9. Dont be to close to her and try to avoid her without she's noticing u doing it,especially when she's currently with her Romeo

10. When her Romeo nearby or contacting her,just smile instead of showing her that u were annoyed.

11. Dont sadden yourself by looking at her status(social network),mentioned about 'him'.Be glad as she's happy.If u still hurt,dont look at her status,or pretend u never did.

Making others happy is really a hard job,especially our loved ones.

Our heart could be shred into pieces,or being cut,leaving scars

but if we love her,no matter who she's in love with,her happiness is what matter.

Others feeling is more important to us,

that is humane,

that is love.

eL

heading for a new life :)

Orite,i wont promise or confirm anything much but i guess this might be the last post.

Why??Because of what??

UPSR,done.PMR,passed.SPM,over.Next?

yeah,college/university life a.k.a further study.

And i said before,that i might study at UMT,rite?

nahhhhhh.....i didnt get it.That prof there agreed to help (yeah,rite....) but still...i mean,at least i have the UMT choice in upu!but then,just another bullshit...

i dont want to go any further about that,let bygone be bygone.So,where i'm going next?

UPM.

UPM kampus Bintulu.

Bintulu,Sarawak.

UPM got a campus there???

no,no,the question is suppose to be;

i got the offer to go there,SARAWAK???

trust me,i'm surprised too at the first moment....i mean,REALLY surprised.

but u know me, 'experienced is the best teacher.'

So,i asked abah, "can i go?"

''Sure."

Yeahhh!!! but mama is lil bit worried...fine,she worried A LOT.

but she still allowed me go there.

then,a lot preparation i had done and requirements i'd finished...medical check up,imigresen,bla bla bla... (still there's something left to be done)...tiresome..confusing... =.='

i hang out with friends for the 'last' time (hopefully not) before all of us got busy with our lives...

reunion... (quite a failure =.=')

movie marathon... (okay,this one is fun,REALLY fun :D )

and maybe,basketball for the last time,next week.

So,again,i'm might not going update this blog for a long time.

busy,busy,busy....but i will try.

For the sake of the followers,( 4 followers for the moment :P :P )i'll try.

Yeah,as usual,wish me luck and pray for my journey and forgive me if anything i did wrong...

soon,i'll be a successful OCEANOGRAPHER (insyaAllah~amin!)

(...but not that i'm going now!i'm going there by 2nd of june,still got less than a fortnight left,haha)

p/s, this is not a death will.

thank you;

abah,mama,dila,angah,azziz,nik,popoi,farid safwan,farahin,faiz,anis,nad,ikin,acap haris,zura, fashahah,tazerk,syah,laoshi,rafi,leman,babarx,hariz,kitol,muiz,botak,adib aiman,wan,dini,yo,aizat,acap,izzat,suriatie,kak akma,ain,lia,azam bulat,syara,ckgu mimi,ckgu azie,ckgu nik anita,ckgu aminah,ckgu asiah,5jaya boys n others (penat nak taip suma :P )

LOL :P

a lifetime's Quote VIII

TIRED OF TRYING,SICK OF CRYING,

YEAH I'M SMILING,

BUT INSIDE,I'M DYING.

REUNION!!! (yg kureng brjaya...)

Orite,post kali ni psl reunion yg aku plan utk bdk2 kepong.Yela,lately kan dh rmai yg dh nk mula sibok dgn haluan idop msing2.So,aku nk jmpe2 suma sementara de masa la kan...so,detail ; mid valley,rabu,11 pg.Aku text suma no bdk kepong yg aku de,aku post event kt fb (perghhhh,smangat...).

Awal2 dh best,rmai seyh kata nk dtg tp rmai gak r yg x dpt dtg.So,still ok la n pg rabu tu,lpas dh breakfast n tlg popoi dgn ayah dia settlekan hal lampu kt surau (aku tlg tgkkan jela :P ),kitorg gerak pi ktm naek motor.Maklum la,mggu ni aku tdo umah popoi.

Smpai ktm,jmpe nik,farahin,aizat,pastu faiz pun smpai.Yg laen otw dr umah (phm2 la,janji mlayu :P ).Tp ble dh naek ktm nyer psl,1st come 1st serve la wei,xnk aku tggu next tren semata2 nk tggu bdk2 ni.

Smpai kt mid,perghhhhh,harammmm...kitorg je smpai dulu.Mcm siot je....then,alang2 tggu bdk2 laen,kitorg lenjan arcade dlu.Pastu timbul la waie,din,aizat pian,adib.Kitorg pi lunch kt food court dlu rmai2.Mmg cam biasa r,dok kt meja mkn rmai2,suma dok brbual lg,xnk bli mknan.Segan la konon nyer....Aduhai,ngada2 tol...aku dh lpr,aku bli r favourite aku kt food court mid tu,black pepper chicken.Pastu timbul la plak mamat,arip,mirul,yusman n sape lg,aku x igt.N anis pun timbul last.

ok,kalo korg prasan la kan,aku mention bdk2 yg dtg suma ni,brapa je pompuan dtg??yup,anis last skali bdk kepong yg dtg n that makes 3 girls who attend to that so-called reunion.Rmai yg cancel last minute...adoiiii...dh la aku yg plan,pastu x brjln lancar lak tu...sumpah down gler...(smpai aku je msti spoil...trmsok la ksah lama dulu...) sdeyh seyh...

Pastu,lpas dh abis mkn,kitorg xtau nk gi mana.Dgn bdk pecah-belah...de yg tgk wyg,bli brg la...So,yg stay together dgn aku cuma faiz,popoi,aizat,waie,anis,nik,farahin...kitorg decide la nk maen bowling...mula dh hepi2 dh,tba2 abah kol....aiseh,aku xnk r cter pe yg trjd dlm prbualan aku dgn abah td..aku cuma leh gtau yg ilang mood gler lpas kol tu...aku mmg xleh pendam senyap,aku secara x sengaja nyer,tunjuk prasaan n buat prangai moody time bowling tu...sumpah ilang mood smpai aku roll bola bowling pun melalut...plus plak tringt ksah lama n jeles lg dgn keadaan yg aku nmpk kt ctu,brtambah2 la bad mood aku.... :'(

So,lpas abis bowling,kitorg pi smayang,pastu pi mkn.Time tu mmg dh ptg gler (dh kira lmbt gak r),so kitorg blk.Anis dh ilang ntah ke mana,nik n farahin lak stay kt mid,aku,popoi,waie,faiz,aizat pi blk naek ktm...

So,tu jela kot psl reunion kli ni.Conclusion nyer,reunion x brjaya r...

:( LOL...

8 mei 2011-selamat hari ibu,MAMA

Selamat hari ibu kepada mama yg skrg berada di US skrg.

Semoga mama selamat pergi dan pulang.Semoga mama berjaya dlm pe yg mama usahakan.

Apiz nk minta maaf atas segala salah silap yang dh apiz lakukan.

Terima kasih sebab dh lahirkan n jaga apiz.

Terima kasih sbb mama ttp bersbr dgn kerenah2 anak2 mama trmsok apiz sndri.

Doakan la apiz berada di jalan yg btol.

Doakan apiz dpt banggakan mama n abah,buat mama abah hepi.

I know,everything u did is for the best for us.That's why u're the best,mama.

MARZALINA BT MANSOR,

Happy Mother's Day :)